A eulogy: All I need to know I learned in a ten minute call with my dad

All I need to know I learned in kindergarten. That was the title of a popular book back in the early 2000s. Ever heard of it?

I’m going to borrow from that title as the theme for my remarks. My theme is “All I need to know I learned in a ten minute call with my dad.”

Note: This is the eulogy I delivered at my dad’s celebration of life in March 2019.


I’ll come back to the main message, but for now let me just talk about who my dad was.

“All I need to know I learned in a ten minute call with my dad.”

John held many roles over his time on earth. Some he dabbled in; some he mastered. He performed all with passion and to the best of his abilities.

Here are some of the roles he played over his lifetime:

  • Son
  • Brother
  • Husband
  • Protector
  • Father
  • River rat
  • Salesman
  • Hustler
  • Airman
  • Sergeant
  • Master Sergeant
  • Sarge
  • Manager
  • Mailman
  • Entrepreneur
  • Inventor
  • Marketer
  • Accountant
  • Counselor
  • Physical therapist
  • Coach
  • Fisherman
  • Hunter
  • Tour guide
  • Lifeguard
  • Author
  • Photographer
  • Cattle rustler
  • Retiree
  • Story teller
  • Gardener
  • Scientist
  • Philanthropist
  • Church choir
  • Volunteer
  • Friend
  • Financial advisor
  • Banker
  • ATM
  • Hibachi master
  • Explorer
  • Pioneer
  • Shell collector
  • Planner
  • Activist

No matter what role you knew John best for, today we remember him and the impact he had on each of our lives.

For me, John was mostly the role of father. However, we were also business partners at one time. That’s when I learned many of the skills to be successful in business.

He taught me how to camp, hunt, fish and in general just to “rough it“. But more important than anything, this man taught me how to grow my faith.

He always insisted that our whole family went to church when we were kids. He even went so far as to send us to a Catholic grade school.

I never knew dad to quote scripture in his everyday conversations. But he showed his faith in his actions.

Now for that ten minute phone call

It was the night that Hurricane Harvey was coming on shore in 2017. It would make landfall within a few miles of my parents house in Rockport, TX.

Mom and dad had evacuated to a hotel about 4 hours away. I called my parents while I was watching the hurricane hunters share live footage and reports from Rockport in social media.

Dad assured me everything would be okay for them. I was convinced he was in denial.

He then told me that God has taken care of him through all sorts of storms in life and he will take care of him this time too.

They couldn’t return to home for about four weeks, due to all the down power lines and trees and such. They came home to a house with a few missing shingles and a ripped screen on their porch from a tree branch that had fallen.

All around them was devastation. Many homes an buildings looked as though they’d been hit by a bomb. It took nearly 18 months for the town to get fully cleaned up. And the rebuilding is still happening today.

The lesson he taught me in that ten minute phone call was that no matter what storms of life you find yourself in, always trust in God to get you through it.

Dad, I love and miss you. But I know you’re in a better place. I’ll see you in Heaven.

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Good times on the Verde River in Arizona

Yesterday I paddled the Verde River in Central Arizona with a Meetup group of about 53 others I’ve never met. We all had one thing in common: Love of adventure.

Verde means green in Spanish. I suggested we rename it Marron River after the Spanish word for brown. Check out the pics and video below to see what I mean. One of the locals guiding us on the trip said, “Na – it’s always like this for a few days after a big rain. We just call it dirty Verde.” Cracked me up and stuck with me.

Verde means green in Spanish. We just call it dirty Verde.


This was about the halfway point of our float. I’m on the down river side of a large chunk of rock that created a nice eddy where I could sit still and take a break. The other kayakers are resting near a rock formation one local told us is called Salamander Rock.


This was about five minutes after we all launched and I was near the front of the pack. Look at the parade of kayaks that contnue as far as you can see up river.


Shady spots like this provide periodic reprieve from the intense Arizona sun.


Nothing fancy about the shuttle ride for this trip. We just piled as many people as we could into pickup trucks to go from the end point where we left our cars back to the starting point where we left our kayaks.

Had a great time with cool people and saw some amazing sights. My favorite was an array of ancient cliff dwellings. Actually had a little fish jump into my kayak too. By the time I realized it and tried to help him back into the river, he jumped back out of the kayak.

I’m working on a more detailed write up with more pics and video for my new blog. Be sure to follow AZ Wonders if you’re not already, as I’m quite a bit more active with that one.

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I underestimated Trump’s effectiveness

I underestimated Donald Trump’s effectiveness as President. On the day of his inauguration (January 20) in 2017 I wrote this:

I personally think Trump’s arrival in the White House is long over due. I think he’ll disrupt politics in Washington as we know it, yet I’m not overly optimistic that the changes he’ll make will have an immediate impact on most individuals in the short term. I think his presidency will look a lot a total home renovation for the first few years, and that we won’t necessarily begin to see the benefits until near the end of his first term.

In the same post, I published several key indicators of the state of the U.S. economy. Below are those figures, along with the comparable stat on the first anniversary of his inauguration.

Key economic indicators for Trump’s first year in the Whitehouse:

Oil (Brent crude bbl) 55.43 63.57 15%

 1/20/2017  1/20/2018  Change
 National debt (trillions)  19  20.6 +8%
 Regular unleaded gasoline (Phoenix)  2.07%  2.30%  +11%
 Dow Jones Industrial Average  19,827.25  26,071.72  +31%
 S&P 500  2,271.31  2,810.30 +24%
 NASDAQ  5,555.33  7,336.38 +32%
 Unemployment  4.80%  4.0%  -15%
 Inflation rate  2.5 %  2.0 %  -16%
 Gold  1,215.90  1,331.10 +9%
 Silver  17.22  17.02  -1%
 Barclays Capital U.S. Aggregate Bond Index  1,976.87  2,027.27  +3%
 30-year mortgage rate (AZ)  4.18%  4.00%  -4%
 Stafford in-school student loan  3.76%  4.45% +18%
 PLUS student loan  6.31%  7.00%  +11%

Last year, I also said this:

I pray that President Trump is the most successful president in our nation’s history. In order to do so, I feel he needs to stop trying to counter or justify every derogatory story released by the mainstream media. He should focus on what he does best – negotiating deals – for the benefit of the people of United States.

I hope that six months or a year from now when I come back to compare the state of the United States’ economy to the numbers above, I will be pleasantly surprised.

As to my last sentence above, I AM pleasantly surprised. Here’s why:

  • The stock market is up “bigly”
  • Many more people are employed than a year ago
  • Mortgage rates have dropped
  • Inflation has actually slowed down, which is rare with a booming stock market

I’m not a fan of President Trump’s seemingly heartless attitude. My guess is that he has a better heart than he’s portrayed as having by the media. He may not be helping the image of the United States abroad and I’m okay with that. To me, the fiscal state of our country is more important.

Sometimes I wish he had a 12-hour delay on his tweets, whereby every time he tried to tweet something it was held in a queue for 12 hours, then asked him if he really wanted to tweet it before it went live. That would probably help soften the perception people have of him.

I hope President Trump does as much as possible in his first four years to help get the country’s budget under control and help more people realize they, not the government, have the power to provide their own happiness. If he keeps up at this pace, he may not need a second term to Make America Great Again.

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A Dad’s letter to girls around the world


As a father to two lovely and beautiful daughters I couldn’t agree more with the text in this post. I’ll be sharing it with my daughters and I’m sharing it with my followers in hopes more young ladies read it before its too late.

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Only the Brave: Harrowing tribute to 19 Granite Mountain hotshot firemen

Only the Brave is a Hollywood movie that tells the harrowing story and pays tribute to the 19 Granite Mountain hotshot firemen who lost their lives protecting the town of Yarnell, AZ from an out of control wildfire in 2013.

Last weekend, I hiked to the site where the men died. What a solemn experience. I posted some pics and a write-up of the experience on my AZ Wonders blog. Have a look…

Tokens of tribute left by visitors to the Granite Mountain fatality site

It takes a special person to fight fires; especially wildfires in remote mountainous areas. On June 30, 2013, Arizona lost 19 very special men in the Granite Mountain Fire near Yarnell. The tragedy gained nationwide attention and became the plot for the 2017 Hollywood movie: Only the Brave. In an effort to help others honor […]

via Granite Mountain Hotshots memorial — AZ Wonders

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Little blue shed of Rockport, TX made famous by storm chaser Jeff Piotrowski

Yes! It’s the blue shed made famous around the world by storm chaser Jeff Piotrowski on August 24, 2017 as he broadcast the ferocious arrival of Hurricane Harvey from one of the car wash bays.

While a fury of building materials bounced and rolled by in the camera’s view as nearby buildings were torn to shreds, the LITTLE BLUE SHED stood firm and steady, suffering only minor abrasions as its witness to battle.

My sister lives in Rockport and she took this picture once it was safe to return back to town – about three weeks after being evacuated the day Harvey made landfall.

Update: I went to Rockport October 7 – 12, 2017 to help my family with roof repairs. I had to take my picture with the blue shed.


Get the background and hear live account from Jeff himself in this video clip from Fox 26 posted to YouTube by Meteorologist John Dawson:

Sadly, the Rockport community has a long road to recovery ahead of it. Here are some pics of the devastation that remains more than six weeks after Hurricane Harvey hit.


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Superstition Mountain blooms

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Originally posted on AZ Wonders:
Just east of Mesa, AZ sits an awe-inspiring mountain range known as the Superstitions. Legends abound of gold stashes, including the “Lost Dutchman” mine that continues to attract zealous modern-day prospectors. Less legendary are the flowers…

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